Sacramental Preparation

Infant Baptism

This is for families seeking Baptism for their infants or preschool children. For a child to be baptized, there must exist a “founded hope” that the child will be raised in the Catholic Faith.  This “hope” rests primarily on the pledge of the parents or guardians, as articulated in the Rite of Baptism for Children: “You have asked to have your child baptized.  In doing so you are accepting the responsibility of training him (her) in the practice of the faith”. The word “practice” indicates that parents ought to be models of the faith in the daily life of their family, teaching the faith to their children by word and example. ~taken from the Sacrament of Baptism of Infants, Diocese of Richmond Pastoral Directives.

Within the mass, we offer four opportunities for Baptism every year. Please contact the Parish Office to discuss alternative requests.  Dates for upcoming Baptism preparation sessions and celebrations may be found here.

Infant Baptism Resources: Godparent/Sponsor Attestation Forms

Baptism for Children of Catechetical Age

Those children who are of school age and have not been baptized are invited to participate in the catechumenate designed specifically for children. Parents and sponsors, along with the children, attend special learning sessions.


First Reconciliation and First Eucharist

Children wishing to prepare for the Sacraments of Reconciliation and Eucharist (which typically occurs in 2nd grade) should be enrolled in our Christian formation program. Attendance at Charlottesville Catholic School, participation in our FIRE program, and appropriate home school course loads (contact us to discuss) are also acceptable. There is a $30 fee for Sacramental prep materials.

Blessed: Sacramental Preparation by Dynamic Catholic
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From September through December, children prepare to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation. Parents are given Blessed – Reconciliation books by Dynamic Catholic to support catechesis in the classroom, at home with their children.

Preparation for 1st Eucharist begins in mid-January and continues until after Easter, when children celebrate the Sacrament  during liturgies in May. Parents are given Blessed – Eucharist books by Dynamic Catholic to support catechesis in the classroom, at home with their children.

Important Dates (2019-2020)  in addition to Sunday Formation (10:30-11:20am English) & (12:30-1:20pm Spanish):

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September 7th:  1-3pm  Parent Meeting

October 18th:  6-8 pm    1stPenance Formation Session (Parents & children)

November 14th:   6-8pm   1stPenance Formation Session (Parents & children)

January 12th:  10:30-11:20am    1stPenance Formation Session (Parents)

February 6th:   6-8pm   1stHoly Communion Formation Session (Parents & children)

March 12th:   6-8pm.  1stHoly Communion Formation Session (Parents & children)

April 19th:   10:30-11:20am.  1stHoly Communion Formation Session (Parents)


Preparation for the Sacrament of Confirmation happens during a student’s sophomore year in high school in the Diocese of Richmond. A student wishing to be Confirmed must be enrolled in a faith formation program, which at Incarnation is our High School Youth Group or our FIRE program. The student must also participate in the Confirmation preparation curriculum, which is separate and distinct from High School Youth Group (see our Confirmation page for details).